Saturday, 3 February 2018

For God and God alone

After a three month break from this blog, in part due to being busy and in part due to not having anything I wanted to write about, its time for another word or two.

I was quite struck recently reading some pages in a book I am using as my daily devotional, "Every Good Endeavour" by Tim Keller. It got me thinking about what is really important in my life as a Christian and what, if I am not careful takes priority. I wondered how often I moan to myself about all of the things I get to do that I often struggle with, especially when I spend a fair bit of time on them. If I list the things I get up to as a Pastor, there are plenty of things I love doing and a number that I often feel I would rather not be doing, but need doing.

Is my priority to engage with those with whom I don't agree and try to modify their theological positions? Is it to make my own views cast iron and waterproof? Is it to attend a lot of meetings to consider how things could be done better or handle lots of administrative tasks and legal requirements? Is it to be weighed down with time consuming, energy sapping arguments and attempts to change the entrenched views of others? The same could be applied to those whose difficult behaviour is entrenched and who brush aside any attempt to help them change or modify this. Or is my priority to spend time in community engagement or pastoral care or building teams or ...the list could go on but hopefully you get the picture.

Keller points out that all of our work (activity - my addition) should be carried out with an audience of one, God. If that is our focus for doing what we do, it will not matter what others think of my work, achievements or lack of them, it wont matter if I am more or less able, it wont matter if someone else has a better grasp on pastoral care or preaching or teaching or community activity or prayer or ... What does matter is that I do what I do for God.What matters is that you do what you do for God.

In an extraordinary passage related to 1st Century Roman's Paul says it doesn't matter if you are a slave or a slave owner, all Christians are called to recognise their equality before God and act from that understanding. Do what we do with God as the audience, no one else.

Jesus told us to go and make disciples ...

Part of my wrestling with scripture and of challenging my views by reading the views of others is so that I continue to know why I believe what I believe and can give a good case for that to any who want to know. It also allows me to modify my views in the light of the work and inspiration of others. It helps me make disciples, provided that I get them to wrestle with scripture as well.

Part of engaging with others with different views or difficult behavioural traits in church, is to work towards a church environment that  allows tolerance but does not mean anything goes. It hopefully makes it a better place to reach people and make disciples.

Part of the need to handle admin. and observe the law is make sure that the church is doing its best to observe the law and is run as smoothly as possible, to make sure other things can happen.Like reaching out and making disciples.

Part of trying to preach well, build pastoral teams, youth teams, children's work teams, is ... yes to pave the way for reaching folks and making disciples.

Part of community engagement or building teams and part of pastoral care is to make it possible to reach out and make disciples and develop those disciples so that they can go out and reach others and make disciples.

Am I good as all of these things? Well truthfully I can do them all but some I am better at than others.

The difficult part for any of us whatever our work or activity is not to measure ourselves against others. (We will probably be better than some and plenty will be better than us. That can drive us to overwork or a sense of not being able to achieve and so backing off). It is to simply offer to God our best endeavours. Guarding our time and energy well and using it as well as we can for God, who see's the good we do and for whom we do it.

I wonder, for those of you reading this, why do you do what you do? For whom do you really do it? Is your personal standing / recognition / value the thing that conditions what you do and how much time you give it? Or is it that whatever you do it is done for that audience of one, God?







Saturday, 7 October 2017

Making a difference

Whats the point? Its a question many people ask themselves, whats the point of life, whats the point of what-ever I am doing? Will it really make any difference?

I guess it usually depends upon our state of mind, our beliefs or our sense of achievement as to how we see the answer to these sorts of questions. Also I suspect that for many of us with our lives continually focused on the next text, facebook like or phone call, there is little time to reflect on what impact we or the things we do have on others.

A recent news article on a town in the north of England, suggested that parents should spend less time on their mobiles and more giving attention to their children, its a theme picked up by schools and organisations around the world. In my opinion its not just children who are affected, how many of us are busy on our phones when we are with our friends and loved ones? Every spare moment consumed.

Don't get me wrong, mobile devices are a useful way to stay in touch with distance friends and relatives, this morning two of my grand-daughters and their mum, whatapp called me with video to catch up with me. It was a lovely moment and shows me that I am an important part of their lives and have a positive impact on them and they on me. In fact my wife and I try to be a positive influence in the lives of our children and their families.

So what is the point? Well for me there are a number of answers depending upon what I am doing and with whom. I will share two here. With my wife its to share my love for her and to experience her love for me. I don't know of anything more affirming in the human sense, we make a difference to each others lives. With our family its the knowledge that I can provide wise council when they need it, help them practically, be there for them and of course accept the same from them. The joy that my wife and I get from our children and grand-children is too huge to be measurable.

The point is that all of us can have a positive and good influence in our families if we put time and care into those relationships. We can even, if we chose to, mend broke relationships. There is a point.

In our society in which many would push aside any suggestion of faith in a higher being, the point to life will depend upon personal perspectives. A book I read recently has been helpful to me in revisiting reasons folks don't believe in Jesus, as I do - Making Sense of God ( A Review). Tim Keller makes a strong case for belief in Christ in an increasingly secular world.

The point for me related to Jesus, is that he empowers me to do more than I could ask or imagine. I find myself drawn into situations as a Pastor which I would never have considered before I accepted Christ into my life. Each person I visit, each person whose hospital bed I sit by to pray with, each couple I take through marriage preparation, each person I prepare for baptism, each family I walk with through the grief of the death of a loved one or a broken relationship, each of all the things God calls me to, makes a difference for those people. That's the point for me.

Being able to show God's love in each and every situation is something all Christians are asked to do and its something we can all do. Its awesome and amazing what God can do through each of us. Its one of the points of being a Christian - to make a difference.

And if you are reading this and wondering, what about me I don't believe in Jesus? God can help us make sense of who we are and our point. Tim Kellers book is a good place to go. Its about accepting that the maker of the universe loves you and wants you to know that. God wants a relationship with you. If you want a simple explanation, try reading this "A bridge to life".

Enjoy making a difference.




Saturday, 5 August 2017

Prejudice and Pride

History is littered with examples of people groups and individuals attempting and sometimes for a time succeeding, in stamping their views and ways upon others. In my view it is all too often the case in modern society that pressure groups for minorities gain favour for their cause, often against prejudice or at least perceived prejudice, from larger groups. Having done so, they or their promoters, in turn can become the victims of being prejudiced against other groups. Perhaps its power, perhaps its the way folks are. There is no doubt in my mind that when we favour one, another will be put down.

A good example is the recent attempts to promote the LBGTQ+ agenda in organisations that should be focused elsewhere which lead me to wonder if in their attempts to seek popularity with one minority the National Trust have in fact marginalised those who disagree with them in this and so have become prejudiced against other minorities. Is this inclusion? The fact is that if we identify with one thing we are often in the place of identifying against another. I don't suppose that the National Trust is going to have a Christian promotion theme in its properties or a Muslim one because these are religious and possibly because a good number of adherents to those faiths would not support the trusts view on their current campaign. Equality and inclusion have truly gone out of the window it seems.

In society today it seems that to oppose anything or to have a differing view on anything automatically brings the accusation of being phobic. We are not allowed to have differing opinions from the popular or promoted minority opinions in our culture.

But then it is nothing new, Jesus was accused by the culture police of his day of being against what they considered correct and more especially because he made it clear that in the Kingdom of God, some will be excluded by what they do or refuse to believe. Interpreting scripture is often an inexact thing as we will bring to it our own views, prejudices, fears and likes. We can't really avoid it. Christians will differ in views, it has been that way since the church began. However agreeing to differ without vilifying is something we who believe in Jesus might do better to model. The recent Church of England synods show what happens when minorities pressure folks and others who should speak but seem afraid to.

The church should not, must not succumb to cultural pressures that would then cause it to vilify any who disagree with that view. Jesus also told his disciples that they would be persecuted for standing firm on what they believe he taught.

Mat 5:11  "Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me.
Mat 5:12  Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.

Joh 15:20  Remember what I told you: 'A servant is not greater than his master.' If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also.
Joh 15:21  They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the one who sent me.

For myself I will continue to wrestle with scripture as best I can and seek God's leading in that. I will stand firm on the convictions I have through that. I will face as well as I can those who are prejudiced against my views. I will attempt to love all, make all welcome while encouraging all to understand  that sin is real, it breaks our relationship with God and we cannot deny it no matter how hard we try. I will disagree with some and agree with others, in the end God will be the judge, not me, not the culture police or the politically correct brigade.

Will I be seen as prejudiced in my views? Of course I will because others will disagree with them. But I will hold my head up in pride that God has chosen me among many others to preach and teach his word and help bring his Kingdom more fully into our world.

Thursday, 20 July 2017

Identity?

Recently I have been reading a book in my quiet times which has got me thinking again about identity, our identity, my identity.

The writer suggests that historically identity could be measured by a persons place in society, which often would be with fixed boundaries and little social mobility. Or could be measured by their service to their community and the honour given to them for this by their community. This can be seen in the heroic stories of Arthur and some of the Saxon heroic tales.

As this has changed, it seems identity may well now be based on what we give ourselves as we seek to determine who we are, what we are about. Much of Western society has a focus of breaking away from community and finding ourselves, doing what we want, regardless of any opposition. Crossing social boundaries, which is good, and crossing moral boundaries, sometimes even crossing ethical boundaries in the reaching for an objective. But then if a person believes they have no boundaries, then there are no rules, as Elsa sings in "Frozen", since rules are more often set by community.

Another writer, Zygmunt Bauman looking at identity a few years ago, suggested that as we journey on that path, our identity changes, it is liquid. Which affects the desire to commit or belong for anything other than a temporary period.

As a child of the "post modern" era as some refer to it, I recognise these traits, raised and taught to strive for the best for myself, that I would be what I made of myself and that it would be purely by my own merits that I would find an identity, a place. Of course the forward projection of this attitude can be a person who is a workaholic, driven, paranoid about perfection, and in many cases uncaring or unaware of their impact on others as they strive for their objectives. Often such a person is successful in the worlds eyes.

So where are my meanderings going?

Well, it seems to me, there are good and bad in both ways of seeking identity. A totally liquid situation will lead to little satisfaction and the need to go on striving and seeking which sometimes leads to psychiatric issues, stress and breakdown. A totally fossilised means of identity holds back and represses.

The Bible shows me that I have an identity with God, through Jesus. This identity does not require me to strive to achieve it or find it, it does not require me to earn it because it accepts me imperfections and all, it has already been given in advance if I want to accept it.

When I accepted that identity I found that it neither represses nor gives total freedom. Why? well in Christ I am adopted as a child of God, forgiven for what I get wrong but also not needing to work at earning God's love. His love has been freely given, to set me free from the need to do that. But in accepting it, I also accept that belonging, for that is what accepting this has meant to me, means that there are guidelines that God has set in scripture. These are not about removing freedom as many suggest but it is more like playing a sport, these have rules of play to give the freedom within boundaries that enable us to enjoy taking part.

My need to strive to achieve transformed into a desire to serve God in any way that God wanted me to. My identity in him does not change because of anything I did or do for him, it is secure. He could love me no more or no less than he does, having given everything for me already. But I have the freedom to act, to make my mind up about things, hopefully guided by God through scripture and the Holy Spirit. I get things wrong but am not condemned, but there may be consequences.

Where-ever you are in your journey of identity, pause and consider, God loves you as you are. In our church we encourage folks in our community to join us in looking at this through Alpha courses. There might be one near you, you might want to look for yourselves. Why? Because you are free to chose and you deserve to know the truth, and the truth will set you free.

Monday, 26 June 2017

A Transforming Faith

In a world with so many things competing for our attention and time, it can seem that faith in Christ, church attendance, spending time growing in that faith, is just one among those competing things.

After all isn't going on Sundays or when-ever it is we meet once a week with our church enough? Isn't it enough to go when we can, when other events, activities and invitations haven't taken priority? And then I hear things like, it doesn't seem to make any difference to my life this faith thing.

Do we really need all of this discipleship, bible study, meeting for prayer and support?

Jesus did not preach and teach a faith that is a tack on to the many other competing things that we could be attracted to spend time on. As one person said to me recently, "it is not an insurance policy" to which we pay our dues. Nor is it, in my opinion, about duty, the sense that we must do all these things and more or we can't wear the badge and be fully signed up.

However with teachings such as ...

Daily take up you cross and follow me ...

Jesus made it fairly clear that following him was going need that faith to take priority in our lives and would take each of us some personal sacrifice. Now before we all start thinking oh no! Am I doing enough? Its not about that at all. Its about a faith that transforms our lives, that grows within us and can continue to grow within us, and affects every aspect of our lives, if we will let it.

The more important question for each of us as we consider following Jesus or try to follow him is perhaps - "What am I prepared to invest in that faith journey? In other words what priority will I give to that journey of discipleship to enable me to grow in faith and to see the fruit of that faith grow, in my life?

What priority will we give to regular attendance at church with others?
What priority will we give to joining a home / life / study group to learn more of Jesus, share with others?
What priority will we give to prayer and personal bible study / reading?

Will they override clubs and activities, or will they take 2nd or 3rd or even lower priority to our jobs, hobbies, social lives? These are not bad things in themselves, but they become almost "gods" in our lives when they take priority over our faith.

Isaiah, a prophet of old told the people of Israel to be careful of making the things they make with their hands, "gods", the things that distracted them from the one God. Perhaps a warning to us today, not to have a luke-warm faith.

For many of the early disciples it meant giving up pretty well everything to follow Jesus, his mission became their overriding priority. Is our desire to grow in faith and so be transformed by that faith, our overriding life priority? If we will it will transform our lives and all that we are involved with.

Let me encourage you, for me investing time in these things and continuing to make them priorities in my life has effected a transformation in me that I and many others would not have thought possible. I have seen that same transformation in many others, who also have and continue to make this a priority in their lives.

I think the writer of the book of Hebrews knew all of this, ending this part with "Our God is a consuming fire". Someone who had, I think, experienced the transforming power of faith in Christ.

Heb 12:26  At that time his voice shook the earth, but now he has promised, "Once more I will shake not only the earth but also the heavens."
Heb 12:27  The words "once more" indicate the removing of what can be shaken—that is, created things—so that what cannot be shaken may remain.
Heb 12:28  Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe,
Heb 12:29  for our "God is a consuming fire."

Do you need to review your priorities so that faith in Jesus might become that consuming fire that transforms your life as it has some many others?